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Are you happy with your love life? Are you regularly going out with guys that turn you on? If you’re like a lot of guys, you go out to parties and gay bars and you come home empty-handed. Not even a phone number. Oh sure, there are plenty of guys who pay attention but it’s never the ones you’re attracted to. And yes, you get hit on by the right guys every once in a great while but it’s the exception, not the rule. I know I haven’t met you, but I want to make an assertion:

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For example, how do you meet gay men when you’re too shy to make the first move? You see guys you’re attracted to all the time, but you’re paralyzed with “approach anxiety” and you just can’t get yourself to start a conversation. And even if Mr. Right (or Mr. Right Now) starts one, you get tongue-tied, quiet, and introspective. He takes that as a sign of disinterest and moves on. And even when you’re not that shy you may ask yourself…

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How Do You Meet Gay Men If You Don’t Know How To Start A Conversation?

Sometimes you do have the nerve to approach somebody but you struggle for things to talk about. You resort to, “What’s your name?” “Where are you from?” “What do you do?” You know these are boring questions but you can’t come up with something more interesting because your mind just completely blanks out at the moment of truth.The result of all this? You go out to parties, social events, gay bars and clubs, and come home alone and depressed. Well guess what?

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  • I’m going to get rid of your fear of rejection.
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  • I’m going to tell you what to say so you’ll never be at a loss for words when you’re standing next to a beautiful guy.

And you know what the results will be?

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Step 2: GET ROCK STAR CONFIDENCE Use my strategies and you’ll be able to walk into a room and get noticed right away. You’ll learn the “3 second rule” and how to use it to COMPLETELY remove any anxiety you have about approaching gorgeous guys. I show you this piece of stellar gay advice on P. 26-30.


Step 3: GET GUYS TO PURSUE YOU. You can do this even if you’re not tall, rich or handsome. By using the concept of “Demonstrating Value,” you can literally get the hottest guy in the room to pursue YOU. All you have to do is understand a few fundamentals about human nature and apply them. It’s fun, easy to learn, and it WORKS. P. 41-54.


Step 4: SAY SOMETHING CLEVER What can you say to somebody that won’t sound like a cheesy pick up line or an awkward, try-hard attempt to sound cool? Learn the 7 biggest mistakes most gay guys make when trying to start a conversation (and how to avoid them). Try my long list of irresistible, no-rejection openers. They’ll capture the imagination, stir curiosity and set the stage for a real connection. Use them TONIGHT. They’re all on P. 55-75.


Step 5: CREATE A POWERFUL FIRST IMPRESSION Learn how to give a guy that same feeling of “I have to have him” that he gets when he sees a guy who is rich, famous, or good looking… without being any of those things yourself. There are 5 things you can do in the crucial first 10 minutes with a man that instantly lets him know you’re “in his league.” How to do it? It’ll all on P. 31-36.


Step 6: MAKE YOURSELF MORE APPEALING Learn how to start a conversation with a good-looking guy who doesn’t look interested. I’ll show you the best way to disarm guys who think you may be hitting on them so they’ll relax enough to have a conversation (and give you a chance to charm them). It’s all on P. 37-40.


Step 7: BUILD ATTRACTION Discover the most powerful approaches to getting him interested in you. They’re GUARANTEED to make him look at you and think, “Tonight just got more interesting.” They’re fun to do, they put a smile on his face and best of all, they’ve been field tested in gay bars, parties and social events. These gay tips are all on P. 76-82.


Step 8: KEEP IT EXCITING I’ll show you how to prevent ‘conversation stalling” and awkward silences by using something called “Multiple Threads.” By talking in a way that creates mild suspense, you’ll create energy, rapport and the feeling that you have a lot to talk about. You’ll never run out of things to say again! P. 83-84.


Step 9: CREATE SEXUAL TENSION Strategic touching builds comfort and creates desire. Start out with indirect touching and escalate slowly with these time-tested tactics. Find out how to position yourself for no-threat touches, where to touch and how to use the “Prize Theory” to get him to touch YOU. Pretty soon you’ll need to read my gay sex advice series! All on P. 85-90.


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Take a look at the feedback from my readers:

“Hi, Mike.
I’ll admit I was skeptical at first, but dammit if those openers don’t work! I feel SO confident now when I go out. These are the best gay dating tips I’ve ever read. I know exactly what I need to do to pick up hot gay guys. And hey, you were right about practicing the value demonstrations on friends first and then trying them on guys I wanted to meet. I have met three way cute boyz just this week that I NEVER would have approached before I downloaded your ebook.”

- Steve Trippe, 25, San Francisco

“Hello Mike,
“I was so painfully shy about talking to guys…The thing that broke through for me was the visual you said I should hold whenever I see a cute guy I’m too afraid to approach. I swear, ever since then it’s just come so easy. There is literally not a weekend that goes by that I don’t have a big ol’ gay date or that I’m not setting one up. Thanks for teaching me how to pick up a gay guy-You ROCK, Mike!”

-Jonathan, 36, New York

“Dear Mike,
My hookups were almost always a product of patience and prayer-IF I waited long enough-and prayed hard enough-a cute lad would come up to me. Well, sometimes months would go by! But your ebook helped me take charge of my dating life. It’s like a manual for the gay seduce. Now, I don’t wait, I don’t pray. I go right up to the cutest chaps and start talking to them. I’m not going to lie and say it works every time but even when it doesn’t, I’ve become friends with them, and then they introduce me to THEIR friends. Awesome! THANK YOU!”

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gay dating tipsI’m Mike Alvear. I co-hosted HBO’s The Sex Inspectors and authored three mainstream-published books, including the gay sex advice book, Men Are Pigs But We Love Bacon. I’m also a syndicated gay relationships columnist and author of the best selling ebook, Attract Hotter Guys with the Secrets & Science of Sexual Body Language.

But more importantly, I’m a guy who’s struggled with the same issues you have. I was terrible at meeting gay men that turned me on. It was excruciating for me to approach guys. Once, somebody actually walked away from me as I was talking! I was so humiliated I never approached another man unless he showed interest first. I simply didn’t know how to pick up gay men.

One day I got sick of waiting for chance to strike. I wanted to learn how to approach and hold a conversation with guys whether they showed interest or not. I interviewed men who knew exactly how to pick up gay guys. They could walk into a bar, a club, or a coffee shop and leave with a number, a hope or a man.
I asked them what worked, what didn’t, and how to handle rejection. I talked to psychologists, sociologists and body language experts. I watched, I observed, I researched. I studied, learned, revised. I lathered, rinsed, repeated.

I got so good I started coaching guys on the art of gay attraction. This ebook is for all gay men who don’t seem to have any luck–whether they’re younger or older. I don’t want you to spend another lonely night in a gay bar (or anywhere else). I don’t want you standing there without the confidence to meet gay men or talk to them in captivating ways. These are skills I can help you acquire. Try the techniques in my ebook. Download it right now.  If you’re not happy with the results I will personally issue a refund. That’s my promise to you.

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Excellent! Imagine how confident you’ll feel the next time you go out. Whether you’re looking for a trick, a date or a husband, you’ll have the confidence and the skills to meet the guys that turn you on. No more standing around waiting for someone else to make the first move. No more going home alone because you were too scared or didn’t know how start a conversation.From now on, gay bars and parties will be something you look forward to; not something you dread.


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